Los Cabos, Mexico

Desire Los Cabos is a full service, all inclusive, clothing optional resort for adult couples only. The resort appears more upscale and is larger (with 149 rooms) than its sister property in Cancun (110 rooms) although both are equally appealing. Desire Cabo is slick, a tad bit more sophisticated but lots of fun with great mix of guests. Nudity is OK just about everywhere on the resort grounds other than the reception area or in restaurants.

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  Desire Los Cabos, for adult couples only, appears more upscale and larger than its sister property in Cancun although both are equally appealing. Desire Cabo is slick, a tad bit more sophisticated but lots of fun with a great mix of guests. Nudity is OK just about everywhere on the resort other than the inside restaurants or in the reception area.

The major knock the resort gets is there's no nude beach. Family resorts are located on either side of the property. Plus, beach water is cool to cold in Cabo where the Pacific meets the Sea of Cortez, a mixture that generates undertow, strong undercurrents and rip tides in certain places

Other than that, the large heated pool plus the cool casitas (called Palapa Beds) for lounging plus the hot tub above the fitness center offer welcome options for nude sunbathing or a little privacy to relax with your honey. The swim-up bars both places are a definite plus.

Desire is all-inclusive and appeals to adult-minded mischief without being over the top.

  San Jose del Cabo is in the Mexican state of Baja California Sur, at the southern tip of the Baja peninsula on the Pacific side of Mexico, about 1,000 miles south of the U.S. border.

The Los Cabos airport is about 15-20 minutes away from the Desire Resort if you use the toll road that skirts the town. Toll cost is a few bucks but it's worth it to avoid congestion in town. The area between Cabo San Lucas and San Jose del Cabo is called the tourism "corridor." Further beyond San Jose del Cabo is the area known as the "east cape," with some great beaches, fishing and a few small villages to break up the trip.

Transportation

By air: Several airlines from Mexico and the USA service the region called Los Cabos. Air carriers include: American Airlines, America West, Continental Airlines, Aero California, Aero Mexico, Mexicana, Alaska Air and several regional airlines. The plane ride from Phoenix, Los Angeles or Houston is about 2 hours.

Airport Transfers: You can reach the resort via taxi, rental car or bus. There is shuttle service between the airport and both towns.

Always cut your deal with the taxi driver first before departing. Most popular destinations and hotels served by taxi use a fixed rate. All rates are subject to change without notice and transfer or taxi costs may vary.

By car: Cabo is about 1,000 miles south of the U.S. border so be prepared for a long, hot journey if you plan to drive down Mexico # 1.

To town: From the resort to San Jose del Cabo is a 20-30 minute walk or a short cab or bus ride.

  Desire Cabo is a full service, all inclusive, clothing optional resort for adult couples only. Spa services, fitness center, fine dining and restaurants, night club and lounging are all available at the resort. A souvenir shop and small boutique are located off the lobby. Other services include: Money exchange, safety deposit boxes, logo shop, spa, sauna and steam room, massage services, direct dial telephone service, car rental and taxi service. Electricity is 110v.

The staff is bilingual and well trained. The hotel features its Service Express: "Ready 24/7 to serve you. If you need a wake up call, towels, sheets or anything, simply dial "0" and an assistant will be summoned immediately to serve your needs."

Tour desk, travel agent and concierge service are available at reception.

Service is dependable and attentive without being underfoot all the time.

WiFi is located throughout the resort although it's not guaranteed in all spots.

  All meals, bar drinks, soft drinks, accommodations, entertainment, hotel taxes, tips and service charges are included in your room tariff. Airfare is extra.

At the resort-Restaurants
Desire Cabo has three fine restaurants on site plus fast and responsive room service, 24 hours/day with a set menu depending upon time of day or night. Clothing is required in the dining areas.

Casual elegance is the norm. The resort calls it: "Casual Formal" Gentlemen: Trousers/slacks, shoes& shirt. Ladies, as usual, wear what you like 'cause you always look elegant!

All times, theme nights, schedules and cuisine are subject to change without notice so check the daily schedule once you arrive.

Il'Piacere
Located adjacent to the reception area, this restaurant is used for breakfast and dinner. Continental breakfast starts at 6 AM and breakfast buffet is served 7 AM to 11 AM daily. Dinner Buffet is 6 PM to 10 PM. Theme Dining (Subject to change without notice):

Tuesday Mexican Buffet
Thursday Seafood Buffet
Saturday Mediterranean Buffet


Il Piacere Dinner a la carte (International cuisine) 6 PM - 10 PM Wednesday & Sunday

Tentazione (Poolside)
Lunch buffet 11 AM - 6 PM (snacks, salads, munchies and grilled choices)
Dinner a la carte 630 PM - 10 PM (Italian cuisine) Closed Friday & Tuesday

SUKI (Oriental cuisine)
Dinner a la carte 6 PM - 10 PM Closed Thursday and Monday
First come, first served. Limited seating. If there are no tables available, have a drink at the bar until seating is available.

All times, theme nights, schedules and cuisine are subject to change without notice.

Bars at the resort
Melange Bar: Open 24 hours (in the courtyard on the lower level)
Nude Jacuzzi Lounge Bar: 5 PM to 3 AM daily
Pool Bar: 9 AM - 6 PM
L'Alternative Disco
10 PM - 2 AM


In Town
Numerous restaurants and grocery stores are in town; a big market is across the street from the hotel. A short taxi ride will take you to the heart of town in about 5 minutes.

Tourism arrived years ago in San Jose del Cabo and Cabo San Lucas after numerous sports fishermen discovered the region, followed later by golfers and vacationers.

Little restaurants and shops off the main drag are the best bargains...the further away from the hotel strip along the ocean, the cheaper the prices.

You will find the most expensive places located in Cabo San Lucas, cheaper prices on the corridor and best bargains in San Jose del Cabo about 30 minutes from each other. San Jose del Cabo is more of a classic Mexican town, built in the traditional colonial style complete with town square and shops surrounding the area.

  Room rates are "all inclusive" which means all meals, bar drinks, soft drinks, entertainment, hotel taxes, tips and service charges are included. If you prefer, you may decide to tip your service person for extra attention provided although it's not expected.

Rates vary by room category from $140/person/night for Superior rooms to double that to $400/person/night for Jacuzzi suites or Passion suites. Seasonal specials may apply for winter and low season tariffs. Early booking discounts often apply seasonally. Rates subject to change without notice.

Total room count is 149 located. Resort is constructed in a "U" shaped building with most rooms facing towards the ocean. Only the Jacuzzi suites and Passion suites face the ocean but you really can't see the water due to the privacy fence at the east end of the property. The 2nd and 3rd floor suites offer a glimpse of the sea.

NOTE about the "Ocean view:" A privacy fence is located on the beachside of the property adjacent to the fitness center that effectively seals the resort from passersby while also eliminating any sea view. Only the 2nd and 3rd floor suites offer a glimpse of the sea.

Check in time: 3 PM
Check out time Noon

  Couples only…ages range from late 20s/early 30s to late 50s+. Most are in the middle.

  The resort has a great upscale, contemporary feel to please client couples of all ages…..there's something for everyone.

Here's what the resort says about adult behavior and nudity: "Please refrain from overt sexual activities in public areas. Please treat all guests with the utmost respect and remember the golden rule: No means No. Due to the nature of our resort, please respect all guests. Photos and videotaping in public areas is not permitted. Please dress appropriately in restaurants. The hotel location does not allow topless or nudity beyond hotel beach limits."

Although the entertainment "animation" staff is small compared to the guest ratio, there's just enough activity around the pool to keep you occupied if you choose some diversion.

Daytime around the pool is a relaxing place to hang out, get some sun and strike up a conversation with your neighbor on the palapa beside you. As the sun sets, most guests head upstairs to the hot tub above the fitness center to catch the last rays of the sun and chill out before retiring to their room to freshen up for the evening meal, dancing and more mischief.

Located between the pool and fitness center, cushioned and gauzed cabanas (called Palapa Beds) offer couples a comfortable option to chaise lounges around the edge of the pool. Poolside, more wooden, cushioned cabanas top off the lounge area but get there early each day to claim your spot. The wooden cabanas are the most popular choice for "hanging out" around the pool.

Nighttime, the night club/disco called "L'Alternative" offers plenty of excuses to lose your inhibitions, lose your clothes and have fun on the dance floor or in the "play room" located adjacent to the party. Tasteful curtains separate the main nightclub area and the "party room" so make sure you know what you're getting into once you enter the curtained area. The curtained entrance offers easier access to the party room compared to the entrance door at Desire Riviera Maya.

Theme nights (subject to change without notice)
Monday No Limits Party-Be yourself (what-ever)
Tuesday Neo Party-Neon colored clothes & accessories
Wednesday Mystic Pleasure Night-Medieval costumes, robes and mask
Thursday Night to be Seen-Transparent clothes or lingerie
Friday Eden Fantasy-Women: Leaves on top and of course, down below Men: Leaves down below are a must!
Saturday Studio 54-Seventies clothes
Sunday Buddha night-Sexy Clothes
All themes subject to change; not guaranteed.

ACTIVITIES:

Below is a "SAMPLE" of the activites that are available at the resort... Please note that these are a sample only and are subject to change at any time.

MONDAY:
10:00 A.M.
10:00 A.M.
11:00 A.M..
12:00 P.M.
12:30 P.M.
1:00 P.M.
2:00 P.M.
3:00 P.M.
3:30 P.M.
4:00 P.M.
4:30 P.M.
09.30 P.M
10:00 P.M.
THEME NIGHT
DRESS CODE:
*****
STRECHING CLASS
BEACH WALK
NAKED BEACH VOLLEY;
AQUAEROBICS
BARTENDING CLASS
MUSICAL TRIVIA
STAFF LUNCH
DAILY CONTEST
SALSA DANCE LESSONS
TEQUILA VOLLEYBALL
SPANISH LESSONS
MELANGE BAR/CONTEST
DISCO L'ALTERNATIVE
KINKY IN PINK
SEXIEST PINK
TUESDAY
10:00 A.M.
10:00 A.M.
11:00 A.M.
12:00 P.M.
12:30 P.M.
01:00 P.M.
02:00 P.M.
03:00 P.M.
03:30 P.M.
04:00 P.M.
04:30 P.M.
09:30 P.M.
10:00 P.M.
THEME NIGHT
DRESS CODE:
*****
BEACH WALK
AEROBIC HI
POOL VOLLEYBALL
AQUAEROBICS
LINE DANCING
PING PONG TOURNAMENT
STAFF LUNCH
DAILY CONTEST
MEXICAN BINGO
NAKED BEACH VOLLEYBALL
SALSA DANCE LESSONS
MELANGE BAR/LIVE MUSIC
DISCO L'ALTERNATIVE
HO DOWN RODEO NIGHT
COWBOYS & COWGIRLS
       
WEDNESDAY
10:00 A.M.
10:00 A.M.
11:00 A.M.
12:00 P.M.
12:30 P.M.
01:00 P.M.
02:00 P.M.
03:00 P.M.
03:30 P.M.
04:00 P.M.
04:30 P.M.
09:30 P.M.
10:00 P.M.
THEME NIGHT
DRESS CODE:
*****
AEROBICS LOW
BEACH WALK
NAKED BEACH VOLLEY
AQUAEROBICS
NAKED TWISTER
POLE DANCE LESSONS
STAFF LUNCH
DAILY CONTEST
REGUETON DANCE LESSONS
TEQUILA VOLLEY
SPANISH LESSONS
MELANGE BAR/lIVE MUSIC
DISCO L'ALTERNATIVE
NAUGHTY SCHOOL YARD
NAUGHTY SCHOOL UNIFORM
THURSDAY
10:00 A.M.
10:00 A.M.
11:00 A.M.
12:00 P.M.
12:30 P.M.
01:00 P.M.
02:00 P.M.
03:00 P.M.
03:30 P.M.
04:00 P.M.
04:00 P.M.
4:30 P.M.
09:30 P.M.
10:00 P.M.
THEME NIGHT
DRESS CODE:
*****
STRETCHING CLASS
BEACH WALK
POOL VOLLEY
AQUAEROBICS
LAMBADA DANCE LESSONS
TV SHOWS TRIVIA
STAFF LUNCH
DAILY CONTEST
WATER POLO
POLE DANCE LESSONS
NAKED BEACH VOLLEY
SPANISH LESSONS
MELANGE BAR/CONTEST
DISCO L'ALTERNATIVE
RED PASSION
RED HOT
       
FRIDAY
10:00 A.M.
10:00 A.M.
11:00 A.M.
12:00 P.M.
12:30 P.M.
01:00 P.M.
02:00 P.M.
03:00 P.M.
03:30 P.M.
04:00 P.M.
04:30 P.M.
09:30 P.M.
10:00 P.M.

THEME NIGHT
DRESS CODE:
*****
AEROBICS HI & LOW
STRECHING CLASS
POOL VOLLEY
AQUAEROBICS
LAMBADA DANCE LESSONS
TV SHOWS TRIVIA
STAFF LUNCH
DAILY CONTEST
WATER POLO
POLE DANCE LESSONS
NAKED BEACH VOLLEY
SPANISH LESSONS
MELANGE BAR/CONTEST
DISCO L'ALTERNATIVE
JUNGLE LOVE
TARZAN & JANE STYLE
SATURDAY
10:00 A.M.
10:00 A.M.
11:00 A.M.
11:00 A.M.
12:00 P.M.
12:30 P.M.
01:00 P.M.
02:00 P.M.
03:00 P.M.
03:30 P.M.
04:00 P.M.
09:30 P.M.
10:00 P.M.
10:00 P.M.
THEME NIGHT
DRESS CODE:
*****
AEROBICS HI & LOW
PING-PONG TOURNAMENT
NAKED BEACH VOLLEY
POOL VOLLEY
AQUAEROBICS
NAKED TWISTER
TV SHOW TRIVIA
STAFF LUNCH
DAILY CONTEST
SALSA DANCE LESSONS
WATER POLO TOURNAMENT
MELANGE BAR/LIVE MUSIC
DESIRE CLUB HOP CABOS
DISCO L'ALTERNATIVE
EMERGENCY 69
EMERGENCY UNIFORMS
       
SUNDAY
10:00 A.M.
10:00 A.M.
11:00 A.M.
12:00 P.M.
12:30 P.M.
01:00 P.M.
01:30 P.M.
02:00 P.M.
03:00 P.M.
03:30 P.M.
04:00 P.M.
04:30 P.M.
09:30 P.M.
10:00 P.M.
THEME NIGHT
DRESS CODE:
*****
STRECHING CLASS
BEACH WALK
POOL VOLLEY
AQUAEROBICS
MERENGUE DNACE LESSONS
COOKING LESSONS
MUSICAL TRIVIA
STAFF LUNCH
DAILY CONTEST
BINGO GAME
NAKED BEACH VOLLEY
WATER POLO
MELANGE BAR/CONTEST
DISCO L'ALTERNATIVE
BLACK & WHITE
SEXY BLACK & WHITE LINGERIE

ALERT: Theme nights are subject to change without notice. If theme nights are important to you, let us know so the current schedule can be determined….but please be forewarned: Themes can change in the middle of the week without notice.
  After 3 or 4 days soaking up the sun, you may get the itch to explore the area.

Tourism and sight seeing is centered along a 20 mile corridor at the tip of Mexico's state, Baja California Sur facing the spectacular confluence of the Pacific and Sea of Cortez. The region is anchored on the east by San Jose del Cabo and the better known Cabo San Lucas on the west.

Whale watching in season is usually one of the most popular sports diversions in the Cabo area. Typically, winter months are the most popular for whale watching.

Other pursuits include just about everything you can imagine on or under the water including diving, deep sea fishing, bill fishing, snorkeling, surfing, sailing and windsurfing. Featured performers for fishing include marlin, dorado/mahi mahi, red snapper and yellowfin tuna. Cabo is known as the marlin capital of the world for record catches of blue, black and striped varieties. Due to the combination of water temperatures, bait fish and sea life in general, Cabo has been known for years as the best spot to catch record marlin.

Plenty of Scuba diving spots are available with numerous dive operators to choose from. Plan on wearing a dive suit.

Rock climbing, repelling, hiking, horseback riding, world class golfing plus exploring the area on an ATV are other active sports you can choose from.

Walking the streets and soaking up the tourism spots in San Jose and Cabo are usually called for at least once when you're there and more often if you choose to.

Hiring a boat for site seeing or yachting to see El Arco (The Arch) at the very tip of Baja is the first thing to do on the tourist map in Cabo. El Arco is the famous natural rock arch that you typically see advertised in photos of Cabo, which greets visitors as they enter the harbor. Nighttime, you can take sunset cruises, dinner cruises and other water-borne voyages to enjoy the local area.

San Jose del Cabo town is closest to Desire. Actually, if you like to walk, downtown is about 20-30 minutes walk from Desire. The main street is loaded with shops, clothing boutiques, restaurants, bistros and bars in the heart of the colonial district with its traditional streets and neighborhoods, co-existing right along side many upscale hotel and condo projects seaside. Shops, bars and restaurants plus nice little bookshops, specialty stores and the town's local market area all within walking distance of the town square.

Cabo is about 30 minutes west of San Jose del Cabo. . The regional airport is about 10-15 minutes north of the center of San Jose del Cabo.

The village of Todos Santos is about an hour north of Cabo by car, maybe worth a visit to see the small but famous art center in this colonial town. A couple of other stops there make it worthwhile.

As the legend goes (and grows), the Eagles song "Hotel California" was inspired by a visit to Todos Santos years ago (although the band claims not to have visited Todos Santos…maybe it was the Chamber of Commerce that started the legend!).

Yes, a there is a building tagged "Hotel California" in town. Now owned by Debbie and John Stewart from Canada, the hotel, built in the 1920s by a Chinese immigrant, has been restored to its former beauty. Room number 5, so the story goes, is where the song was written (or inspired). The hotel includes only 11 rooms but its unique boutique, martini bar, courtyard and restaurant are must sees. If you stop by for a photo and a drink, Debbie will lead you on a tour, complete with fact and fiction about the place.

Across the street from the hotel, the obligatory bar and grill has literally thousands of signatures scrawled all over its walls, silent testimony to all those visitors who believe "you can check out, but you can never really leave." Many words in the song offer clues that you may, indeed, be in the real town and at the hotel described, especially with the "mission bells ringing" and descriptions of the "hot desert highway," conditions so accurately capturing the tone of the village.

There is a mission next door to the hotel so stop in for a look, since the interior is quite beautiful, too. Otherwise, hey, just go and have a beer or margarita. Up the street from the hotel are shops and a little grocery store. At the town square next to the mission, a famous eatery called Restaurant Santa Fe offers gourmet meals. If you have time, explore the small artisan's shops, craft markets and galleries all within walking distance.

Further north is La Paz, the colonial and energetic capital city of the Mexican state of Baja California Sur (south). A visit there is best saved for a full day or even an overnight stay. Take Mexico highway # 19 from Cabo to reach both Todos Santos and La Paz, with the highway in great shape and views of the ocean and mountains keeping you company along the way. La Paz is about 130 miles north of Cabo; Todos Santos is about 45 miles north.

Swimming is not advisable most places along the corridor as rip tides and undertows can be dangerous. Best public beaches in the local Cabo area include: Playa Solmar, Playa Medano, Playa del Amor, Playa Santa Maria and Playa Costa Azul. Check with the locals about salt water conditions before setting off to the local beaches.

Los Barriles and the east cape are the choices for windsurfing especially between December and March when wind conditions are best. For pure surf boarding, try Acapulquito Beach. For snorkeling, try Santa Maria and El Chileno beaches.

For diving, there is one coral reef nearby called Cabo Pulmo, also well known for its sports fishing for marlin.

 
Can't use the beach nude
     
The night club, L'Alternative, is the hot spot of the resort as well as the roof top hot tub
     
You CAN use and enjoy the big, heated pool…larger than one would expect.
     
Service is consistent, courteous and prompt.
     
  Bedside lamps in guest rooms don't function as illumination for reading;
     
  Resort has an upscale feel
     
  The staff is well trained and seem eager to please; a good reflection of attentive management
     
  Don't expect a large entertainment staff for adult fun and games. With lively guests in attendance, around the pool and in the club, you don't really need a lot of entertainment.


  Los Cabos is a year round destination. Winter nights are cooler than summer so, ladies, bring a sweater or jacket. Guys, pack a wind breaker or pull over sweater for winter time visits. Summer time, temps are hot during the day but cool and dry at night.

Daytime weather is superb year round unless a rare storm off the Pacific visits the area. Humidity is quite low and rainfall is rate. Think Arizona with beach water.

  Wish guests could use the beach…nude.

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